I did an interesting little test where I checked a lot of boxes that told a program what I'd like in a man. The program calculated, based on basic probabilities and census data, that I would have to meet 156k men in San Francisco to find 1 that met my preferences. It also told me that in San Francisco there are 167k available straight men in my age range.
This means, of course, that approximately 1 available man in my age range in SF is right for me. 1!
So I thought I'd try this: I know I've learned what things about men tend to make a good match with me. Figured I'd let you self-select. Not a list that men have to live up to, just a list of the most crucial things to me.
It's probably fair to tell you a bit about me first, though. :)
I am: extremely tall, strong and athletic but still femininely soft and curvy, very smart with occasional blonde moments, pretty emotional but also logical and analytical, curious about everything, and incredibly passionate about many things. I'm a do-gooder who likes to party, relax, and work hard, all while maintaining variety and balance. Most people think I'm attractive, and I tend to smile a lot.
I think the guy who would match me probably fits all of the following:
- probably between 27 and 40, with a teensy bit of leeway on either side
- 6'0" or up, and happy with a tall(er) woman
- strong - not necessarily built, but has enough muscle to throw an athletic girl up against a wall when appropriate :)
- cares about his health, but isn't anal (can have a beer and relax while eating healthy)
- has had his heart broken
- has had long enough relationships to learn how to deal with a woman
- enjoys sex, enjoys learning about and pleasing his partner, and is not a one trick pony
- is good at said sex
- probably doesn't fit squarely into any one stereotype (hipster, marina boy, nerd, etc.)
- independent - has his own friends, own life, but wants to make time to share with a partner, too
- not completely socially inept, but some dorky awkwardness is fine
- will always have his partner's back and encourage her goals, wants to be part of a united front
- will make the first move
- will vary between sweet & gentle and tough & strong
- brilliant
- also brilliant sense of humor
- passionate - about something. anything really
- not extremist in religious or spiritual beliefs
- curious - likes to learn more about world
- ambitious, and successful in chosen career
- cares about people, maybe even some he doesn't know
- laughs every day
- is laid back about this dating thing and okay with seeing where things go
- major bonus points for the following: salsa dancers, snowboardersskiers, cowboys, basketball players
Alright, I think that touches the main points. Think you can help me increase the probability of finding that 1? Happy to trade pics if you respond with yours.
Live in SF, work in SJ, school in Berkeley, winter in Tahoe.distance is soooo not an issue.